A conversation with a client…
“I’m sick of living I my head all the time. Show me how to raise my level of consciousness, so I can experience more synchronicity and live my purpose. Oh, and find the love of my life too.
Throw out all of your goals, dreams and ambitions.
Take a step back.
Get real with why you aren’t satisfied by life.
Then, get rid of all the bullshit.
Stop living for someday.
Realize there will never be enough to fill the void of not-enough.”
Hi, I’m Tim McAuley,
The life coach who doesn’t give a shit about your goals.
I give a shit about you.
I want you to see through all the bullshit….
I believe when you live your truth.
The World is Transformed.
Hopefully, after 2020, we can both agree world needs new leadership.
I hate to break it to you, but we’re not returning to “normal.”
We’re headed into an age of massive disruption.
People will further polarize. Pick sides. Try to cancel one another.
The world needs heart centered leaders.
We need people centered in their true nature.
Less reactive. In tune with possibilities. Part of the creative process.
If centrist don’t take leadership, left vs right will tear the world apart.
Each of us needs to tune in and destroy our own delusions.
Sit in a place of truth. Do stuff that matters to us. And create stuff because we feel like it.
The world is waiting for you to create whatever matters to you.
I’ll tell you like I told my client.
But, first you have to wake up to who you really are, and stop arguing with life.
It might take us a few months to get to get there.
Keep doing what you’re doing.
Work on what you’re working on.
If you want to start playing around with your big bold vision go ahead.
You are the only person who can determine what’s best for you.
For our purposes, we won’t be discussing any of that until I feel like you’ve tapped into your own gravitational core.
I want to guide & teach you to Bend Spacetime.
When you get this…
… then you can really put a dent in the universe.
The impact you crave will feel inevitable.
It’s part of you.
When you tap into your purpose,
sit in a place of knowing,
it pulls you along.
Over the next few pages, I want show you the path.
Give you an overview of concepts that I believe can help you figure out a few things…
Why all the resistance?
Is there something more to life than what you notice?
Why do we get so stuck?
If you stick with me, I’ll eventually show you how tune into a plane of infinite potential…
… see the probabilities of how the future might unfold, and bring the one you prefer to you.
I hope to do this subject justice.
Don’t take my word for it. Test the ideas. If I’m wrong, let me know.
I believe this…
Each of us has access to a level of consciousness that just knows exactly what the best next steps.
It’s your truth.
When you get in touch with it, and develop the capacity to get out of your own way, you can pretty much create whatever the hell you want.
I’ve been half-assing it since 2008.
My results reflect it.
But, 2018 I got a wakeup call.
My dad’s last words to me shook me to my core.
The grief of losing him nearly destroyed me.
I almost blew up my marriage — The one I “manifested” in 2013.
Luckily, she gave me space to properly grieve, and when I decided it was time to move on, I set a plan in motion.
On April 18, 2019 I wrote “Go from Waiter to Life Coach.”
Tuned in. Did some things. Got a client. Then another, and things snowballed from there. I still worked as a waiter in a SmokeHouse in Plano, Texas when a young man here in Dallas listened to this podcast.
He reached out.
He hired me for three months of coaching.
After a few weeks, I became executive coach for his company.
Covid shut down everything.
After goofing off on Facebook for 3 weeks, and arguing with people about stuff outside of my control, I pressed pause, tuned in, and created a solution.
The shift in energy showed up for my client. He asked me to teach him what he just experienced. In July 2020, when he was ready to re-enroll, he committed to a year with me, at $25,000
October 5, 2020 he blurted out…
“I’m sick of being in my head all the time.”
And we had the discussion about how to experience more synchronicity.
To better help him, I needed to unpack my thoughts around spirituality, philosophy, principles and practices. That’s what this is. I’m updating it today (March 2, 2021)
Before we get into it…
… let me just say, this process isn’t for everyone, not even close.
But, if you’re sort of like me…
…”a little off in the head,” I think this will be useful for you too.
For now, let’s call the process to experience more synchronicity…
The Tao of Tim.
I’ll explain why later.
Not only is it a funny story, it’s also a meta lesson within this process.
But first, let me explain why you might want to read through this.
We live in a very noisy world.
Flooded with information.
It’s getting noisier every day.
I believe this series will help certain people turn down the volume and tune in and find their own signal. And when they do, the world will benefit in very wonderful ways.
Throughout this series I attempt to explain why conventional self-help stuff doesn’t really work for some people…
..Why it actually backfires and leaves you wondering if you’re broken.
This is my current thinking around why it’s so damn hard for some us to break free of our own mental prisons and experience more synchronicity in our lives.
This will be especially helpful if you’ve created your dream life and you feel like you’re stuck in your own version of Groundhog Day.
Too many people live a life of regret.
This series will help you sort a few things out and create the space to find real solutions forward.
If you don’t “know” me yet, please understand, I am an inspired work in progress.
I love to read. Study. Meditate. Paddle boarding.
I love learning and figuring things out.
Had been a self-help junkie since 2004 – when I my liver function forced me into sobriety.
My friends and family call me Google.
I am a polymath in my self-study in the pursuit of mastery.
My hunger for knowledge and truth is insatiable.
That being said, you should also know that I am NO WHERE near the successful by an objective measures.
Today, my experience of life is satisfying to me.
I do pretty much what I want, when I want.
But for the longest time, I was stuck chasing the fantasy of someday.
It made me moody at times. A little ragey. Which triggered the Shame.
Please know, I’m not prescribing anything here.
Just sharing some of my thoughts around a the subjects I’ve geeked out on and obsessed over since 2004.
There is no promise of rainbows or pots of gold, although I wouldn’t be surprised if they show up for you.
Here’s why I think this stuff is important.
Technology is disrupting the world as we know it.
We are bombarded by information, advertising, and outrage on a daily basis.
Humans Aren’t Built for the Information Age.
Information is flowing too fast.
We have too much access, and don’t know how to process it all.
Too many moving parts. It’s not slowing down any time soon. But, you need to if you want thrive in the years to come.
Most people won’t do the work I’m going to suggest.
Things could get weird. Most likely will. 2020 was not the most disruptive year you’ll experience over the next decade.
We are headed into a time of massive disruption.
Everything about society is transforming. The transition to a new way of living will come with resistance. Polar opposite ideologies will get loud, demanding the world behave in a way that makes them feel safe. Equality for all … or We’re all on our own….
More chaos is on the horizon.
But, it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Just know, there is no return to normal. Normal went bye bye a few decades ago.
We just didn’t realize it.
Now we’re seeing it.
Impotent outrage everywhere.
The path of transformation follows a pattern.
There’s a MAP.
I will share it with you in the following pages, and if you decide to go further, I’ll not only show you how to bridge the gap, but I’ll show you how “quantum leap” as well.
The first key thing I need you to understand is there are only 3 things that you control.
The first being your attention.
You can train it to tune into your energy field.
When you do, you will find it much easier to level up your life and upgrade your life.
But, you won’t feel like you have to. You’ll do it because … just because.
It all boils down to this…
Learn to Control your Attention
or someone else will.
There are a countless ways to train your attention.
I’ll share with you a few, but by no means is it an exhaustive or all inclusive list. You’ll have to test out some stuff until you figure out what works for you.
I’m guessing this isn’t your first day on the internet.
You might be asking what’s the catch?
How much is this going to cost?
Today all this is yours for the one time low price of …..
Why so expensive?
That’s not a joke — Free-fiddy is a steep price.
I’m asking for your attention.
This will take time to go through, read, and digest.
Attention is the most valuable resource in the Universe.
Tech companies broker it.
Politicians use it to gain power.
Learn to harness your attention, and
the world will be a much better place.
If you’re not able to control your attention, you can bet your ass someone else is.
One last thing, before we get into it.
The Tao of Tim is always evolving.
As are you…
As I grow, and coach others through it, things get a little more nuanced, some things get discarded, others get updated, sometimes new ideas come out of collaboration.
Whenever I recognize my own flawed assumptions, I press pause and take the time to update my mental models and adjust accordingly.
When that happens, I update things.
Nothing here is written in stone, and may be updated at some point.
I shared that with you for a few reasons.
First — if you’re someone who wants to defend “the way things are” and you don’t want to challenge your own mental models, just stop reading now… This isn’t for you.
Second — This process is fluid and dynamic. Flexible. And it will work better the more you participate. As you read through it, if something that just doesn’t seem to make sense, reach out and message me. We can figure it out together.
Maybe you’ll help me understand why it’s wrong. Share your experience of this experience with me, it’ll be a win/win for everyone involved.
New ideas and understandings emerge from collaboration.
If something lands, blows your mind, makes you see yourself or the world differently, please let me know that too. It’s helpful for me to know what works as well as what requires more clarity.
This is an overview.
A mini course. The first part of it starts on the next page.
I don’t want you freakin’ email address.
Maybe later, you’ll want to enroll in a free 7 day workshop, then you can choose to get on my email list for further coaching.
Choice is yours.